Soft skills and Leading

Soft skills and Leading

Many years ago in my nursing profession, I was charged with being in charge in the operating room where I was working. I was very young and had no management or leadership training. I had no clue about the pictures staff had in their head about their work, etc. All I knew was it was up to me to set the time schedules for all staff and to make sure we had supplies and that things ran as they were supposed to.   I did the best I could do at the time with what I knew at the time.…
Depression / Expression

Depression / Expression

Recently I watched a video with Dr. Edith Edgar and this quote sang out to me. I pondered the quote the opposite of depression is expression and although I have over 35 years’ experience as a licensed counselling therapist, I had not heard this before. It made perfect sense to me. My mentor and teacher Dr. Glasser stated that it is perfectly normal for all of us to depress at different times in our life and he describes three reasons why we choose to depress. One of those reasons is to restrain the anger.   My thought was that if…
What if?

What if?

I remember in my early years doing presentations for parents and youth saying that “knowledge is power.” But when I learned Reality Therapy which is a fail-safe communication process, I learned from Dr. Glasser that using knowledge is power.   It made total sense to me. Of course, using knowledge is power so if we teach a bunch of information that does not mean anything to some, then they have the knowledge but they will not use it because it is not need-satisfying. In his book Quality Schools Dr. Glasser talks about the importance of sharing with students the reason…
Are you a Dead Machine?

Are you a Dead Machine?

Do you think other people are responsible for your happiness? Do find yourself saying if only she or he would change I would be happy? How much time do you spend hoping and waiting for others to change to meet your picture of what you want? This is the importance of sharing the pictures we have in our head…the things we want in our future, how we will parent children, our values around money, etc. Sometimes I see people who say “if only” he would change, she would change” or why can’t they be more like me? When you spend…