Are you a Dead Machine?

Are you a Dead Machine?

Do you think other people are responsible for your happiness? Do find yourself saying if only she or he would change I would be happy? How much time do you spend hoping and waiting for others to change to meet your picture of what you want? This is the importance of sharing the pictures we have in our head…the things we want in our future, how we will parent children, our values around money, etc. Sometimes I see people who say “if only” he would change, she would change” or why can’t they be more like me? When you spend…
If you do this!

If you do this!

  Coercion is all around us all the time, and so is resistance. To coerce is to attempt to persuade someone to do something through force  or threats. " Clean your room or I will take your cell phone away from you" for example. " If you can't get here on time, I will cut your pay!" Seems innocent enough. Right? The question is does it help or hurt our relationships? What would happen if there was a different conversation to be had?  Would you like to find a way to reduce resistance and learn how to get more of…