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Shy and Afraid!

As I started my speaking career, I was a nervous wreck! I was very shy and introverted but when I applied for a new job, one component was public speaking. I was not ready for that! I almost ran back to my other job. You see not only did I have to speak in public but I had to talk about Sex! There were two of us and researched our topic thoroughly and we delivered a good speech while shaking behind the lectern. The parents were grateful though and encouraged us to keep going. That is where we learned one…
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Do You Fear Speaking in Public?

            I have spent a lot of time recently speaking with some of my fellow toastmasters. Toastmasters is a great organization that is designed to help others develop their speaking and communication skills. There is research saying that fear of public speaking is greater than fear of dying. How did we ever get that belief that we need to fear speaking in public. Was it taught to us in our homes? Did we learn about that in school? I suspect that school has a little to do with that. I know my own experience was…

Boss or Lead

  Relationships are important and our Moncton Magic basketball team proved it over the weekend. They just returned home from a road trip where they lost 6 of 7 games. During that time they had a couple of injuries and as a result picked up some new players, who had not played with the team before. They still played but the guys really did not know each other. Give them a week back home and an opportunity to work together as a team and learn to trust each other and they have a home game and win the game because…
This May not be for You!

This May not be for You!

The more I teach the Online Choice Theory program the more I am impressed with the quality of learning of the student. Let me say this online program is not for everyone. It is not for you if you are not self-motivated. In other words if you need to be involved with other people while learning the in person training may be better for you. But I am impressed so far with the level of integration by those that choose self-directed learning. The online training program is set up in such a way that you meet with an instructor for…